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Monthly Archives: May 2012

Have You Fellated Your Produce Today? I Have! (Or, Blowjob Tutorials Part 2: Deep-Throating)

May 31, 2012

If you follow me on Twitter you’ll know that the most popular posts that I’ve written so far have been …

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Better Sex Next Time: 4 Things I’m Doing Today for Future Sex Whenever

May 30, 2012

Future sex is a mystery!  Sometimes you just don’t know when you’re going to have sex with another person next.  You …

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Orgasms Part 1: Anatomy of the Clitoris, Arousal Tips and Clitoral Orgasms

May 29, 2012

This is Part 1 of what necessarily needs to be a multi-mulit-multi-part exploration of the anatomy and acheivement of different …

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So WTF is a Cock Ring?

May 27, 2012

I was just introduced to cock rings not too long ago as I was skimming the wall displays of my …

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Sleeping with Him “Too Soon” and the Perils of Slutty Dating

May 26, 2012

Say we have a slutty girl– the kind I wrote about when I wrote about calling myself a slut.   …

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Book Review: Mind-Blowing Sex: A Woman’s Guide by Diana Cage

May 25, 2012

So first before anything else:  for male readers here who like having sex with women, I know it says “A …

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Should I Really be Calling Myself a Slut?

May 25, 2012

I get frustrated when I see well-meaning people who believe they are working against a paradigm taking some sort of …

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Good Times to Use Lube (from Personal Experience and Actual Sex Advice Media)

May 23, 2012

The really short answer to “is this a good time to use lube?” is “yes”.  I was one of those …

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A Yeast Infection Tale, or: Choose Your Cheater-Lube Wisely

May 23, 2012

Ever heard the story about the girl who accidentally brushed her teeth with Vagistat-1? If you were at all worried that …

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Porn Review: Blowjob Tutorial from BangYouLater.com

May 22, 2012

I’m not a regular consumer of porn, although there is one instance of note that is personal-story territory. I’m still …

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